Appreciating & Honoring one's marriage

Solid one year ago I met my close cousin who felt like my own brother.

We meet casually for meals and discussion & life-sharing stories, we grew up together, he was a best friend. We know each others' life stories, and lifelong endurance on struggles in life in work, financials, healthcare, family update.

and thats the end of it one year ago when his life partner mistaken our meeting for something else.

I shouldnt do that , even from the beginning. I shouldnt hurt his wife until she has mistaken me having relationship with his husband.

I do, I do appreciate the form of bond we created upon growing up together,

BUT, I couldn't stand the accusation made by the hurted wife saying I try to steal her husband. That is so low.

So I stayed away. 

Its been a year now. I do hope they live happily ever after, and I should care of myself more.

Good things fall apart, so better things fall together.

This tragedy, have taught me a lot that I should respect others' partner and should ask them whether their partner know about our meetings, even if we are siblings and close cousins.

NOTE to husbands; dont meet another women without your wife's consent or without her knowledge.. please appreciate & honour your marriage, you are no longer own your life alone, you shared it with your partner.